First time mom

Funny thing is Most of my life i planned to have no kids .After Turing 18 i became more sexually active and then by 21 i got pregnant.unplanned by me…thankfully it was planned by god so there WAS NO MISTAKE!! I was being petty ,basic and easy until i had a kid.I realized Iam going hard ,im tuff and i can handle what most people don't.

Thank god i have an excuse to be loud and have a child friendly environment.Being a mom is nothing like they say on tv or what other moms say is not true for you and me.every parenting experience is different .the main difference is when your child less you don't have as much as work or power and strength as a parent does .from my experience i am a stronger person now, i have overcame hardships and being the badass version of myself.i have plenty of free time to live my day how i want .the free time for myself is well maintained throughout the day in between my baby-dolls schedule .it feels like i am a kid again!!

The pressure from other people can get into my head sometimes fortunately i have a strong intuition i trained my mind to switch so i can quickly go from mad to happy ,sad to happy , negative to positive in a second.i am proud to say that i am a cannabis friendly mom .i live in the SoCal…it gets really hot here so i wear mostly skin revealing clothes .these are some things people think bad parents do, in reality it depends how they do it.we wear open clothes to keep cool not to seduce people ,we don't abuse cannabis we are adults we use it to connect with god and for recreational use only.

There is so many false teachings being pushed to the youth more and more nowadays.we all don't need daycares thanks to those moms including me have proved thats .study’s show that homeschooled kids or kids that start learning after 6years usually out perform students that went to day cares and public school.we don't need to eat processed or flesh foods and the snacks targeted to kids can be dangerous for a child to have. Most people think that all religious parents are toxic.when you teach children about church the appropriate way its not toxic and can be beneficial.going to church /sabbath school is great for thier social development and spiritual growth.

Becoming a FTM was one of the greatest things that has happened to me.i can break cycles in the Family ,i can create a new way of raising children ,i can be different than most moms in a healthy way and that is more than ok.